How to Raise a Polite Child
October 2, 2009 by admin
By Pauline Go
These days for children, games, outdoor activities, television, etc take a higher priority than something more crucial to life - good manners. A child’s success in life is directly related to what his parents instill in him right now. It may be something as simple as greeting elders, respect for one another or how to answer a question politely.
Practice what you preach - often children repeat what they see the elders say or do. Hence, it is important for parents to set the standard they expect from their children, always. Maintain high standards at home and teach children to speak properly. That way you will not have to worry about the way your children behave in public.
Tips to Raise a Polite Child:
Use the words ‘please’, ’sorry’ and ‘thank you’ frequently when applicable. Teach children the significance of these words, when to use them, how to use them and where to use them.
‘No’ means ‘No’. Teaching a child that you mean business when you say no may not be as difficult as you think it is. Be firm when you don’t want your child to do something, so that he knows you mean “No”. Of course, the child won’t obey the first time, though he will eventually learn. Do not give in even if the child cries or throws a tantrum.
Share. Take time to explain why sharing is important to your child. Future life is all about sharing. When the child understands, he will consciously make an effort to do so without being forced.
Table Manners. More often than not, mishaps take place at the table. A child is never too young to begin learning the basics of table etiquette.
The right way to inculcate good manners is to encourage or praise the child when he does something right, and correct him when he goes wrong.
About Author:
Pauline Go is an online leading expert in the senior care. She also offers top quality articles like :
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